Secrets to splurging

The basics: Roam around in a mall, unsupervised, for the better part of an evening. The mall will ideally have stores such as Forever 21, Mango, I.P. Zone, Espirit, John Little, Cotton On, Bodyshop, Charles and Keith, Popular and several smaller boutiques specializing in costume jewelery, quirky hand bags, sandals and hair bands.

Chances of splurging increase exponentially with situational circumstances such as the Great Singapore Sale (GSS), discounts for Citibank credit card customers, seasonal clearance sales, ridiculously good looking male sales assistants, and weak (or absent) will power.

Being accompanied by a shopaholic girlfriend (or a recovering shoe addict who has since donated 3 of her 36 pairs of heels to charity) greatly increases the chances of impulse purchases, loss of the sense of time, fits of hysterical giggling near changing rooms, pseudo modeling worthy of Project Runway, and a lot of fun.

The flip side: Splurging can often also result in cognitive dissonance upon returning home and unpacking one's purchases, chronic depression at the end of the month when credit card statements arrive, further trips to Ikea and Home-Fix in futile attempts at wardrobe space expansion/storage, and having to then find the perfect pair of heels to match that brand new turquoise top.

But hey, women were born with this God-given right (and weakness?). We might as well make the most of it ;)

The Bucket List

Back in January, I created a list of things I'd like to do by the end of this year (though at the time, it wasn't known as the uber cool 'Bucket List') and since almost half the year is up, I decided to review it today.

Result = **** (a.k.a. pretty impressive :D)

I'd put down 15 or so things to do/see/make happen/achieve, of which I've done slightly more than half :)

I'm actually quite proud of myself. And a bit high on pizza right now..

That said, I'm off to have a Tim Tam in celebration... :)

When the world comes crashing down..

... like it did today, you need friends to lean on, stand up and dust yourself off.

Ignorance is definitely bliss. But sometimes, a reality check is exactly what the doctor ordered. However painful it is when it slaps you across the face.

It's funny how a few moments, a mistake and an unexpected revelation can change your perception, alter hope and ruin a chance.

You live, love, lose and hopefully learn. I seem to have a lot of trouble with the last one..

Going places

So I have permanent sunburn marks on my feet. But I'll always be a flip flop girl :)

The addiction-prone creature that I am..

Latest musical obsession: 'Bubbly'



Latest food fixation: Pistachios

















Latest technological hang-up: Twitter

Latest literary interest: Jodi Picoult

















Latest drink to be desired: Mudslide
1 oz vodka
1 oz Kahlua coffee liqueur
1 oz Bailey's Irish cream
1 oz cream

Latest object of photography: The new 'durian' look


Smooth operator

And I thought it was only in the movies...

The paper anniversary

I'm supposed to be celebrating a year of blogging today. Instead, I'm thinking 'I can't believe I've not run out of things to say yet...' :p

In fitting celebration, however, I became the proud owner of 3 credit cards this afternoon. Yes, 3 of them. Long story short, I really only wanted the one, but got two extras thrown in anyway *sigh*

I know I haven't been updating the space lately; blame stress, work, deadlines, chronic depression and severe post-holiday withdrawal symptoms. And a hell of a lot of writer's block. I've also been neglecting my friends, and for this I really do apologise. I've been a bit homesick, a lot sick for Europe and very sick of Singapore (already!). I've also been an anti-social, obsessive compulsive exercise freak for the last couple of weeks, and I'm hoping I switch back to the old me because frankly I don't like this current version much :p

I've been back for 3 weeks now and I have yet to unpack my collection of shot glasses. Something is definitely wrong :p

The boy can dance :D



Of special mention: my dear ginger colleague who busted out these same moves at Zouk last weekend apparently :P

Wanderlust

Yups, I'm back. After the craziest 3 and a half weeks of my life.

Reading my post from a month ago, I can still sense the excitement and thrill I felt before I left. One month later, I'm sitting here trying to grasp and put into words the whole experience, now that I've been, seen and done. It almost feels surreal thinking about it.

People have been asking me all week how my trip was and I haven't yet found a single word or phrase to describe Europe; it was amazing and crazy and unbelievable and exciting and tiring and beautiful all at once.

My first memories of Sweden: The pine trees out the window of the plane and the crisp and cold spring air that hit me when I stepped out from the airport. Seeing the hospital where I was born was as special as I thought it would be. Walking into the neighbourhood where I grew up and having flashbacks of myself playing in the park, scraping my knee falling down on the tar road, and remembering peeping out of our old apartment window, was both scary and amazing. I think I somehow felt connected, a strange sense of belonging to a country I hadn't been to in 17 years.

Visiting 11 cities in 15 days was incredible.

I saw the inside of so many trains that I lost count- we missed a train, were early for several, made it with a minute or two to spare for some, caught one only because it was delayed by 10 minutes, took night trains with compartments all to ourselves, with families, with people from as far as Nigeria, and a train that crossed the sea on board a ferry. We took the TGV, had train delays, even snuck into a first class cabin before being 'politely' kicked out.

And the hostels. Between our 'pseudo' hotel room in Paris and the 10 bed dorm in Vienna, between the smoky and relaxed neon-lit lobby of the hostel in Amsterdam and the basement hangout in Budapest, I think we probably saw it all. And we owe a lot to our friends who lent us their couches and sofa beds to crash on.

The journeys between cities and countries were an experience on their own; the long stretches of green and yellow fields, wind turbines in the distance, cows and sheep (!!) grazing and lazing in the grass, and the little red farm houses nested cosily in the sprawling countryside. The graffiti at train and bus stations all over Europe and the homeless in little pockets and corners of the cities. Friendly faces and not such friendly ones; a melting pot of different people and cultures. We met so many old friends and made quite a few new ones.

Memoirs of the trip: Ripley's Believe it or Not in Copenhagen, Madame Tussaud's and the coffee shops in Amsterdam, the Louvre in Paris, the bouchons in Lyon, the Alps and lakes in Switzerland, the architecture in Vienna, the Sound of Music manor in Salzburg, the castles and palaces in Budapest, the beer, dumplings, the city and vineyards of Prague, the train station in Berlin, the sunny walkways and coastlines of Malmo, and the historical feel and expanse of Stockholm. My personal favourites: Prague, Lausanne (Vevey), Stockholm and Amsterdam.

There's so much more to it, but this post can only be so long... Pictures to follow soon, I promise :)